Multi-Oh Secret #3: She Knows How to Do it Herself
It’s usually helpful for a woman to fly solo when she’s first exploring the concept of multiple orgasms. This is because there is no pressure to perform (i.e. no thinking “I have to come or he’ll be disappointed!”). That means you can keep trying until you get it just right.
If hypersensitivity becomes an issue, a good way to work around it is to skip direct contact with the clitoral shaft the second time and stroke more to the side with a wider, sweeping motion. Be sure to “play” with different areas.
“What often happens when women are self-pleasuring is that they will discover other areas that are sensitive that they didn’t expect. Until they stimulate different nerves, they don’t know how they’re going to react,” says Paget.