Make It About Her
Help her to understand that the night is all about her pleasure. Make her feel that you have the entire night to devote to her satisfaction. Pay no attention to the time it takes. Your patience will have multiple payoffs, but if she feels rushed, she will be less inclined to relax and feel comfortable -- feelings that are not conducive to achieving multiples orgasms. An excellent way to emphasize how much you enjoy making her feel good and to show her that it really is “all about her” is to bring her to orgasm before penetration. She will feel that you really do want her to reach great heights throughout the night, and that you consider your satisfaction secondary -- don't worry, when's she has had enough you'll get yours.
Remember: Orgasms are for her all night. If she wants a lot of little explosions or one huge inferno, it is for her to decide. This isn't the time to flex your sexual prowess and try to make your woman come over and over if she doesn't want to -- she might prefer the one peak. Remember that the goal is her satisfaction, not your ego's inflation by hearing her scream out repeatedly. Just listen to her or ask. Don't assume that you know what she wants and how she wants it. Take your time and satisfaction will be had.
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