Oral Sex - Ways to Get Him to Go Down on You

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8 Subtle Ways To Give Him the Hint to Head "South"

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Ronnie Koenig on Apr 13, 2011 at 11:05AM

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Get Him to Give You Oral Sex -- Tonight!

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a Ronnie Koenig on Apr 13, 2011 at 10:55AM

When your man wants oral sex (which, let’s face it, is pretty much all the time) he makes no bones about it. But ever notice that getting your guy to return the favor can be tough? If your partner is reluctant to go south of your border or you're too shy to ask him outright, you’re not alone. How do you pop the question without being pushy or making it awkward? We’ve talked to the experts for some gotta-try-this tips on encouraging your man to be an oral enthusiast.

Speak Up!

Wouldn’t it be nice if men could read our minds? When it comes to giving pleasure, your guy may not know you’re wishing he’d pay a visit downtown. The next time you’re giving him oral, say something like “My turn next, right?” Or try a more direct approach: Ask him outright, ‘Wanna go down on me?’ “Most men find it sexy when a woman is direct and asks for what she wants,” says Patti Britton, Ph.D., a clinical sexologist and author of The Art of Sex Coaching. They want to feel wanted, so if you ask for something in the bedroom it turns them on to know you desire what they can provide. A little lip service goes a long way, nudge, nudge.