It's All About Kissing Technique
Turn your mouth into a soft suctioning apparatus on her tongue. If you'd like, suck on her tongue mimicking the way you would suck on her clitoris. She'll catch on quite quickly and perhaps after that you can let her suck on your finger so that she can return the favor.
Get creative and lick on her upper and lower lips in a slow, ticklish method. Once you have lubricated them adequately with your saliva, move your lips around her lips and let your saliva wet both of your outer mouths.
If licking her lips makes you antsy and quickly wanting more, then begin sucking on her lips... one at a time though, no one wants to feel as though they've stuck their mouth on an opened vacuum. Be careful when you suck on her lips; don't get too rough or you'll end up giving her a hickey and I have yet to meet a woman who would appreciate that.
Don't be shy, you're not confined to kissing just her lips... there's a whole face and body to explore. Why not French kiss her chin, her neck and her breasts? Or kiss her eyes, the spot behind her ears or her wrists. You'd be surprised at the beneficial results that creativity can reap. All you really need is the willingness to try anything. If you've never been complimented on your kissing techniques before, now you'll know the basics of being a professional kisser. On the other hand, if, when you kiss a woman and then pull back, her eyes stay closed for just a moment longer, it usually means that she thoroughly enjoyed the kiss and there's a good chance that you can further seduce her if you like.