Do have fun and try not to feel guilty about having sexual feelings-you're single, not dead! Many women feel they have to justify their desires by building a relationship with someone who just doesn't meet their needs in other areas. Remember, too, that if he just views you as a sexual being but not as a parent, this is not the kind of person you want your kids around anyway.
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