Recipes for Hot Sex

  • Massage oil feels so good when you want to create the sensation of bodies slipping and sliding. Try putting a lot of oil on your breasts, then slide his penis between them. Men go wild for this kind of play.
  • Sex Toys - once again, vibrators are the number one toy for women. You must be very careful how you introduce these toys to your lover. Men can be very turned off, if you don't introduce a vibrator in a sexy, sensual way. We recommend that you have the vibrator plugged in, under a pillow and you suggestively pull it out during foreplay. Use it on him first, massage his back, then work your way around his body. Let him get used to the feel of the vibration. Then say, " You want to watch me"? Begin by guiding his hands to feel you, have him touch your breasts, and play with your vagina, put his fingers inside of you. Then put the vibrator on your clitoris. Always keep him involved in your pleasure. He needs to feel safe, that you still find him sexier and more important than any toy. Another tip: Use a smaller vibrator to start. When he gets more comfortable, you add a little more spice to the sauce.
  • Sexually Explicit Videos -- men enjoy more hard-core videos while women enjoy more romantic ones. Find videos that are a turn-on to both of you and you enjoy watching them together. Then use the techniques in the videos to create fantasies with your lover. These are your instructional cooking videos.
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