Tired of unsatisfying sex -- or no sex at all? You're not alone, and now you're in good company. According to her new book, Satisfaction: The Art of the Female Orgasm, Kim Cattrall spent two decades of her life sexually dissatisfied -- a far cry from Samantha, the character she plays on HBO's Sex and the City. Read this excerpt to learn what unlocked the door for her and how her secrets could change your sex life forever.
This book is not really about sex. It is about love. Loving means caring, and what is more caring than wanting our lover or mate to experience the fullest expression of his or her sexuality? Many women will privately admit that their lovers do not know how to satisfy them fully. There are men who know how to bring a woman to orgasm, even repeatedly, but they are a small minority. This book is intended to help couples achieve the deepest sexual fulfillment. However, the text and drawings in this book are of limited value without strong feelings of the heart.
Anyone can learn techniques, but technique alone will not make a person a great lover. Each man and woman has specific preferences and needs, and each must develop great sensitivity and awareness for the other to reap the full benefits of the techniques they learn. When you try adapting the material in this book, remember that your true purpose is not to simply perform a physical act; it is to enable your lover to feel things more deeply, to let him or her experience release beyond expectations, and ultimately to bring you and your partner closer together psychologically, emotionally, and spiritually.