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Secrets of a Healthy Marriage -- with Kids!

Yes, it's possible to keep the romance alive, even after you have kids. Here's how... (16 Photos)

Jenna McCarthy on Sep 19, 2012 at 9:55PM

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Secrets of a Healthy Marriage -- with Kids!

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Don't Tell Dad How to Spend Time with the Kids

Moms and dads have very different roles in a child’s life. In most cases Mom is the nurturer, the vegetable-pusher, the kisser-of-skinned-knees. Dad is the Fun One, the dude who lets them eat brownies for breakfast when you’re out of town (“It won’t kill them!”). Even though your methods are clearly superior (and safer), there’s no better way of saying “I trust and respect you” than biting your tongue and letting your hubby do it his way.