Do's and Don'ts When Discussing Housework With a Man
Don't nag him about it.
Do negotiate a master housework plan.
Don't criticize his attempts.
Do let him work at his own pace.
Don't accuse him of bad faith.
Do develop cleanliness standards together.
Neil Chethik is author of VoiceMale: What Husbands Really Think About Their Marriages, Wives, Sex, Housework and Commitment.