Mr. Answer Man says: Mr. Answer Man's heart is breaking. For the record: Women should demand orgasms, women should enjoy orgasms, women should increase their capacity for orgasms, but never -- I repeat -- never should women fake orgasms.
Above all, your sex life should be a very safe place -- and safety and truth go hand in hand. If your sweetie's lovemaking isn't doing it for you and you're unwilling (for whatever reason) to share this with him, then this is an area in your life that begs to be examined.
Fortunately, here at iVillage we have many sex-related articles and tons of message boards to get you started. Information is power, ladies -- or in this case, pleasure.