It's just like erotic books, but it's online, easier to access and faster to read. There are women seeking women, men seeking women and every level of kinky—depending on what you're comfortable with. Read them alone or invite your mate to join you. A study by University of Western Ontario professor and author of Changing Boundaries: Gender Roles and Sexual Behavior William A. Fisher concluded that when both women and men were exposed to nonviolent erotica, they experience small, short-term increases in the sexual behavior they are already accustomed to engaging in. Reading lustful requests for mates can be titillating—and even if you start out laughing, you'll most likely end up oooing and aaahing.