While putting on a condom, keep things hot with a stream of erotic talk, suggests Yvonne K. Fulbright, Ph.D., a sex educator and author of Sultry Sex Talk to Seduce Any Lover. "As he rolls it on, describe in intimate detail how turned on you are, how much you ache for him, how you're about to scream your head off. Keep fueling his about-to-come-true fantasies." You can also focus on other erogenous zones as the condom is slipped on. "This can help make sex more of a total-body experience."