Need a mutual break (not from each other but maybe from life)? No better way to let it all down with a little rub down. First light lots of candles, put on some soft music and prepare two cups of tea. Then, predicated on where you are in your dating status, go for a hand-and-foot only or sensual full-body massage. Either one will steam things up. You can get a fun little kit from The Body Shop for $10 that includes a mini massager (in case your hands get tired) and some relaxing massage oil. A bubble bath afterwards is optional. But, if you decide to go there, be sure to wash each other’s hair (it’s hugely sensual and relaxing).