If you're usually nice in the bedroom, try spicing it up this year with this resolutions list. Even the naughty have room for improvement (16 Photos)
Ashley Vactor on Dec 27, 2012 at 3:59PM
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Don't be afraid to be more verbal. "Resolutions are all about being proactive. If you have a fantasy then speak up and take responsibility for your own pleasure. Realize your desires and communicate them to your partner," says Emily Morse, iVillage sex & relationship expert, author, and talk show host. Communication is key. "People don’t talk enough about sex when they’re with someone but this is exactly how you can guarantee a more fulfilling sex life. Talk about your desires, wants, needs and fantasies. Be open about it -- this includes dirty talk. Don’t be embarrassed to say something on your mind while you are having sex."
Whether it's an emotional connection you want -- or something more kinky -- it's never wrong to speak up. The first step to getting what you want is identifying it and then asking for it.
