Don't be afraid to be more verbal. "Resolutions are all about being proactive. If you have a fantasy then speak up and take responsibility for your own pleasure. Realize your desires and communicate them to your partner," says Emily Morse, iVillage sex & relationship expert, author, and talk show host. Communication is key. "People don’t talk enough about sex when they’re with someone but this is exactly how you can guarantee a more fulfilling sex life. Talk about your desires, wants, needs and fantasies. Be open about it -- this includes dirty talk. Don’t be embarrassed to say something on your mind while you are having sex."
Whether it's an emotional connection you want -- or something more kinky -- it's never wrong to speak up. The first step to getting what you want is identifying it and then asking for it.