Stop Fighting in 30 Days

Is fighting ruining your relationship? Do you want to preserve or rekindle the love you felt in the early days? (Yes, it's possible!) Follow this program and find out how to handle couple conflicts and achieve marital harmony. First, find out if you're fighting far, then head to the other steps and get started.

Lesson Plan: your step-by-step guide

Step 1: Are you fighting fair?
Learn about how the way you approach an argument can affect the outcome.

Step 2: Eliminate Open Warfare
Figure out what you and your partner are always fighting about and learn how to stop.

Step 3: Eliminate Secret Warfare
Fight fairly. Learn how to disagree with your spouse nicely.

Step 4: Use Your Ears to Resolve Conflict
Get tips on how to be a good listener, so you can put an end to needless stress.

Step 5: Present Your Gripes Properly
Discover the best ways to share your concerns -- without starting a fight.

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