Most men will tell you that they want a slutty, threesome-having, handcuff-toting bisexual for a girlfriend but, in reality, being too out there is too much for most guys. Get too oversexed and he’ll end up feeling like he can’t keep up.
“Many women don’t realize that being oversexed is just as harmful to a relationship as being undersexed,” says Carole Lieberman, M.D., psychiatrist and author of Bad Girls: Why Men Love Them and How Good Girls Can Learn Their Secrets. “If you come on too strong in the bedroom -- especially if you haven’t had sex for a while and hungrily devour him like he’s your last meal -- it will frighten him away. Men like women who are sexually playful and adventuresome, but keeping him up all night trying to satisfy you is not a good idea.”