You can also use this technique when your guy is out of town and you want to try some passion chat by phone. Talk yourselves through a whole sexual act, either a real encounter you might actually have in your own bedroom or a fantasy describing a setting and activities that turn you on. Some fantasies are never meant to be acted out, so the phone is a great tool for this kind of sexy communication; and, of course, you might end up describing some things you'd actually like to do! One more advantage of passion chat is that it can open up some creative ideas and options.
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