Here's the debate: Should he like you for you or should you beautify? Many will argue that there's no right or wrong answer. But, for Patti Stanger, star of Bravo's The Millionaire Matchmaker
, there is no question—what you look like does matter. "Men fall in love between their eyes," says the matchmaking guru. "If you're not [appealing], he's not going to even look at the menu."
I sat with Patti to get more dating-style advice. Here's what I learned, and be sure to catch The Millionaire Matchmaker
on Bravo, 10 p.m. EST on Thursdays.