Find your hot spots
There are three possible areas for penetration and stimulation, not counting the mouth: the G-spot, vagina and anus. Probing and rubbing inside the first third of the vagina, either by hand, penis or vibrator, can bring a G-spot orgasm that produces heights of enjoyment. I always advise that you try toys that appeal to you and pick those that work for your particular style and wants. Go to such sites as Goodvibes.com, AdamandEve.com and yoursexcoach.com and explore the wide range of options. Some women need more direct or indirect clitoral stimulation while he's inside, while others need their partners to lick them to their zenith while having a finger or vibrating internal rod probe her deeply. Some women's excitement grows with a finger or vibrator in their anus.
Only you and your partner will know what does the trick for your anatomy, your sexual response pattern, your own relationship and the interactions that emerge between you two. Each couple have their own manner of expressing sexual energy, sharing loving feelings and lustful ones, and intermingling bodies. Find your own brand of merging and then add to it, like candles on the cake.
The path to multiple orgasms in women includes all the preparatory phases to get into the mood, following your natural sexual response patterns and then pushing through to the next level. Clear the mental, open the emotional, learn how to play the body like a musical instrument, and trust yourself (and your lover) to transcend the first pop and then keep going. I find that women often need to be given permission to have their first little "O" and then keep soaring before they break open the envelope. To find the multiple-orgasm level in you, let go, push past where you have left off before and bring your lover along to enjoy the ride.
Click here for a transcript of Dr. Patti's chat on female multiple orgasms.