Mr. Answer Man says: Well, we hate making the bed. Does that count?
Guys seem to be more adventurous because of the kind of adventure we crave; often it requires that only the woman endure something unusual. For instance, lots of guys say they'd love to have a threesome or give you anal sex, but do you know many fellows who would be up for a threesome with another man -- or who would happily let a woman strap one on?
Different guys draw the line at different places, but in general, it's the least freaky thing two people can do that bothers us the most: expressing emotion. Most guys have trouble doing that anyway, but for some reason it's especially difficult during lovemaking. We may say it's because we're too overcome with animal desire to tell you how much we love you, or that we're already devoting our complete attention to manipulating your body's Dickensian network of sexual bells and whistles. But the fact is, men look at sex as a physical act, not an emotional one. It doesn't mean we love you any less, but for those nine minutes -- uh, we mean 90 minutes -- you are our prey. That's why us hunters have trouble saying "I love you" but don't have trouble asking you to wear lacey underthings and call us "The Captain."
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