Is There a Breakup in Your Future?

Obsess Much?

Do you obsessively think about "him" and "your relationship"? Learn how to snap yourself out of the hypnotic state you've put yourself into by "circling your prey."

Romantic Rule: No one is obsessed when their needs are getting met, unless they're lunatics.

When a woman is tormented by love, she's usually hooked on a man who can't fulfill her most basic needs for love, attention, sex, intimacy, companionship or commitment. In other words, you've either fallen in love with a sociopath… or a homosexual. If this sounds like you, the good news is that you're not wrong to feel bad, but the bad news is that once you've become obsessed, your relationship is usually bad news for you.

Romantic Rule: Being "in love" means that two people feel the same way about each other.

In other words, if someone asked both partners how they felt about each other, they'd both say, "I'm soooo in love!" Otherwise, one of you is suffering from romantic delusions.

In other words, if you have to ask other people about what's happening in your relationship, you're not really in one. And if you can't talk to him about what's happening in your relationship, you don't have one.

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