19 Tips for Getting Past the Pain of a Partner's Infidelity

A Word about Revenge

"Revenge never helps you get control and always comes back to haunt you. Choose healthier ways to your express anger. Yell, talk about how you're feeling with friends, go work out, but in the end learn to let the anger go. The only acceptable revenge is to live a wonderful life." --catherine303

Get more advice from women who’ve been there on the Betrayed Spouses Support Group message board or from the group's website.

If you are involved in an affair yourself, please visit the My Affair message board for support and advice.

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