Want a Better Sex Life, Mama? Try These Tips Tonight!

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Want a Better Sex Life, Mama? Try These Tips Tonight!

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Heidi Raykeil and Christine Petrozzo on Jan 25, 2010 at 4:04PM

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Between kids, work and the endless struggle to get a good night's sleep, sex can fall to the bottom of your to-do list (if it's there at all). But wouldn't it be great to get some before-the-kids energy and crazy attraction back? We checked in with top experts to get sizzling sex tips that'll help you get your mojo back on track. Do it!

Dream On, Baby

Make believe isn’t just for kids -- adults can live out their wildest fantasies, too. “The quickest way to stimulate desire is to share a fantasy,” says Ian Kerner, Ph.D., and author of She Comes First and He Comes Next, says. So the next time you’re both in bed, slowly start whispering X-rated scenarios into your man’s ear. Need help getting started? You can put your fantasy in the context of a "sexy dream," says Kerner, to make it easier to share and eliminate the blush factor!