If divorce seems to be the only resolution, you must see yourself moving forward in life without your spouse. There are many emotional stages of dealing with a divorce and the sooner you accept it the sooner it will be behind you! The recovery period may take longer for some than others and seeking help through a support group near you is always highly encouraged.
Reminder: You must fight for what is fair! Do not confuse what is for with revenge! You must look out for your own and your children's best interest.
Even though you may not want the divorce, never fight the divorce for the sake of causing difficulty or pain for your spouse. In the short term you may feel some satisfying revenge, but in the long run you, and others in your family, will suffer from severe emotional pain and grief.
Provided by Divorcesource.com