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20 Things Every Man Wants in Bed -- It's More Than Just Dirty Talk

You might think you have sexy down to a science. But do know what real men actually want in a lover? Read on to find out (21 Photos)

Ronnie Koenig on Jan 25, 2013 at 5:49PM

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20 Things Every Man Wants in Bed -- It's More Than Just Dirty Talk

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New Tricks

Men want a lover who is willing to try new things from time to time. That doesn’t mean you have to go all 50 Shades of Grey. Just be open to ideas.

“Sexual desire is like an appetite,” says Paget. “We all want to try different flavors -- otherwise we’d get bored eating at the same place all the time. Men want someone who is willing to explore unique feelings and new sensations.”

Worried that whatever you do is suddenly going to become part of your nightly repertoire? Don’t think of it as a can of worms. Most likely the occasional change-up is all he needs.

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