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20 Things Every Man Wants in Bed -- It's More Than Just Dirty Talk

You might think you have sexy down to a science. But do know what real men actually want in a lover? Read on to find out (21 Photos)

Ronnie Koenig on Jan 25, 2013 at 5:49PM

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20 Things Every Man Wants in Bed -- It's More Than Just Dirty Talk

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Enthusiasm

When it comes to sex, you can get an “A” for effort. Guys want to be with someone who’s actually into sex and not doing it as a favor or just going through the motions.

“There is nothing more seductive than an enthusiastic lover,” says Lou Paget, certified sex educator and author of The Big O: Orgasms: How to Have Them, Give Them, and Keep Them Coming. “That beats out the perfect body or the perfect face anytime. A man wants feedback that a woman is into doing things with him!”

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