What No One Tells You About Sex After Baby

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15 Things No One Told You About Sex After Baby

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Jenna McCarthy on Feb 10, 2011 at 6:07PM

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The First Time You Do It After Childbirth Will Be Scarier Than the First Time Ever

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a Jenna McCarthy on Feb 8, 2011 at 9:45AM

If you had a complication-free delivery, your doctor gives you the green light to get busy again around six weeks post-partum. And even though you are very clearly not a virgin -- the baby next to you being solid evidence -- you may find yourself approaching new-mama sex on trembling legs. After all, an entire person recently came out of there, and even though it was totally worth it, of course, the extraction process may not have been particularly delightful. Although in time you will associate your nether regions with pleasure again, it’s normal to feel a certain amount of panic after the trauma of delivery.