Why can't I have an orgasm?
I'm 24 and have never experienced an orgasm. During sex I get to the point where I feel like I need to urinate, but then it goes away. Because of this, my boyfriend doesn't want to have sex anymore. I am so confused. Please help me!
There was a time when people would call a woman who couldn't have an orgasm "frigid," but we've long since given up that term. Now we say that she is pre-orgasmic, meaning that she can learn how.
The main question I have for you is: Are you only trying to have an orgasm during intercourse, or have you tried other means? To have an orgasm, your clitoris must be stimulated, and most women do not get sufficient stimulation during intercourse to have an orgasm. Does your boyfriend stimulate your clitoris in other ways besides having intercourse? Have you tried it yourself on your own? I mean masturbation