Has your guy been spending more time texting than focusing on you lately? If so, you should probably ask yourself what (or who) is so much more interesting. Or better yet, ask him. “The best course of action here is the direct course,” says Nise. “In a calm and non-accusatory tone, ask him, ‘Who are you texting and why are they more important than me?’” If you don’t quite buy the answer, dig a little deeper.