Will He Cheat? How to Tell If He's Being Unfaithful

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Stacey Stapleton on Aug 2, 2011 at 2:25PM

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Will He Cheat? How to Tell If He's Being Unfaithful

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Will He Cheat? How to Tell If He's Being Unfaithful


Tiger Woods, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Anthony Wiener and Mr. Strauss-Kahn. Megawatt stars and elected officials aren’t the only formerly-faithful men who succumb to temptation-- Average Joes do, too. We’re obviously not putting all men on the same boat. All we're saying is that if you've seen any of these signs you and your man may need a serious sit-down.

 

He Doesn't Trust YOU

Interestingly enough, guilty guys often project their insecurities onto their partners, wondering where they are every minute of the day. “Some cheaters may also use accusations to put their partners on the defensive and cover their tracks, which is deeply manipulative,” says Julie Nise, a psychotherapist and spokesperson for the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists. But before you toss his stuff on the sidewalk, Nise adds, there might be another explanation. “He could just be feeling insecure and needs more of your attention.”

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