When your guy's not around, there's no need to be stuck at home with a Lean Cuisine -- do something fun by yourself. "Many people aren't comfortable doing this because they imagine others are judging them for being alone," says Lombardo. But the reality is, most folks are probably too wrapped up in their own thoughts to ponder why you're solo. So enjoy your meal and your alone time. It sends the healthy message to your guy that you don't need him to entertain you every night. That kind of independence is sexy!