Women on Top
My boyfriend and I have been together for a few years. We have a decent, safe sex life, but I'd really like to please him more by being the one on top during intercourse -- his favorite position -- but I can't seem to get it right. Neither of us is getting any enjoyment from it. What can I do? What am I doing wrong? --W
Question:Dear W:
I'm glad to know that you and your honey are practicing safe sex. Your experimentation has led you to one of the best loved and cherished of all the sexual positions: woman on top. In this position the woman can control the sex act and derive her ultimate pleasure. That may not be important to you and your boyfriend, but some women need to feel that they can control some of the aspects of lovemaking, such as depth of penetration, type of thrusting, insertion position (for clitoral stimulation) and even eye contact.
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As for the problems you're experiencing, perhaps you need to work on balancing your body above your partner. Having the strength to support your own weight when you're on top is key, too. It's important to brace your body so that you have adequate flexibility and you can control his movements while riding him. To get more comfortable and achieve mutual satisfaction, try different arrangements of your two bodies
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